I came across this idea while watching an episode of Scrubs on Star TV. This is the episode about JD and the Tasty coma wife TCW.

In this episode JD starts to date a woman (TCW) whose husband is in coma for the past two years, when the episode is nearing the end JD goes on to say something on the lines of we are not made to be single and all the rest of you (You being all his pals) are very lucky to have found your special someone and blah blah… and I was like hell yes, we are not!

And as I thought about it more and more it struck me that, truly we were not supposed to be single.  
I believe that we are made to share.

Our existence is about sharing, about learning as we share, about teaching as we share and about doing something new as we share.
And for us to share it is essential to have another entity to share it with. You are free to choose that entity as you please. Can be the same gender entity or not.

But again I am not referring here about the platonic relationships that we share with other people. I mean the non-platonic kinds as it is very important to have that level of intimacy. It’s when you have that level of intimacy then only you open up at the level which is desired to start sharing and not just sharing but really sharing!

And what do we share? We share feelings, day to day happenings, we share the once in a while feeling that we get or we share our bits of secrets that we hold so close to ourselves, we share those magic moments that take our breath away and we share the things that cause us to completely change our way of thinking.

Looking at it from the spiritual aspect - Do we share bodies? Do we share more than feelings? Can’t be as inane as just sharing feelings, has to be a lot deeper that that!

And if this sharing is coupled with an equal amount of sharing from the other side, we have a learning process. Now you might ask why do we need a learning process? Again I truly believe ( I am using that phrase too much ! ) well I do !, (damn i hope i am not sounding like the girl from South Carolina :D)

So here goes … that there is a level that we need to reach, a kind of a benchmark that has been laid down for us, as mankind. Not as individuals but as humanity as a whole. Not communities, not races, or genders or age groups, it’s a level that we need to reach as everyone.

Each and every soul in the world. Might sound a little far fetched, but until and unless we reach that level our development as people, as a race, hinges on being a disaster. To succeed as a race, as humankind we need to reach that benchmark.

And I am not sure if this level will be reached by everyone or when, cause it can be just a handful of us left in this world who are then able to achieve this. But the fact remains that there is a certain kind of level that has to be achieved I don’t mean that this level is going to be a neutral phase where everyone thinks alike, does alike and is basically one (in all terms of thinking, doing, etc)

This stage that we are to reach is going to be thriving with different ideas, different ways of doing, different thoughts, processes, religions, gods but the thing that shall bind everyone here is going to be that underlying basic mechanism that will be critical for our development.   And what exactly is going to be that common thread? (More on this later)